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It is sensational to know that you can advocate for your children and to get the tools to do it. Before I began working as a writer and a blogger I worked as an attorney. It was wonderful work. I loved fighting for my clients. It was thrilling to be their advocate. I loved doing all I could to help them achieve their goals. I took my role as an advocate for others seriously. So, it was only natural that I see one of my primary roles as a mother to be an advocate for my children.
Each day I am called upon to advocate for my children in a variety of circumstances. These circumstances range from things as simple as getting the exact toy a child wants from the toy store to making sure my daughter gets the opportunities she wants at college. In school, I advocate making sure my children get the classes they need. When there are disputes with teachers or authority figures, I must step in and advocate for my children to get the best possible outcomes. This range of experiences is common to mothers the world over.
There are times when I must advocate for my children with my children. My children, like many children, want to avoid chores, early bedtimes, and dinners they do not like. As a parent, I must help them understand the importance of chores. It is my job to make sure they go to bed at a decent hour. I even have to make sure they understand that they can eat the dinner I prepared, period.
It is not easy to advocate for your children. Each day you may be called upon to advocate for your children with people outside the family, inside the family, or with your children themselves. No matter with whom you are advocating, you must be able to put forth your best efforts.
You do not have to be trained as an attorney to be successful at this. While it is true that attorneys are trained to advocate for their clients, anyone can be trained as an advocate. The more you care about the thing or person for whom you must advocate, the more zealous you will be. The more you care, the harder you will work. When you add some good ideas to that hard work, you are more likely to achieve your desired outcome.
Several years ago, I was invited to talk with parents, teachers, and administrators at my children’s school. The subject of the talk was finding ways to help your children to succeed. I was asked to talk about this topic because I was always pushing for my children at the school. I advocated for:
The list went on and on. I was invited to talk with the group to help other parents worth with the school teachers and administrators to advocate for their children. That presentation lasted approximately 45 minutes and then there were another 45 minutes of questions and answers. The evening was a success. It made me realize that there are a lot of parents who want to advocate for their parents, but they don’t know how or are not confident they will do a good job. The PowerPoint presentation from that evening became my book “How to Advocate for Your Children to Succeed.”
The book is divided into four chapters. The first chapter is all about preparation. You will read about what it means to be an advocate for your children. Next, I share my three-part plan for preparing to advocate for your children:
With this foundation in place, we move to chapter two which is all about advocating for your children. In this chapter you read about:
In chapter three you read about the power of teams. This chapter focuses on:
Chapter four shares some resources that will help you become a better advocate for your children.
One of the most important things to remember is that you can be a good advocate for your children. This is not a role you should take lightly. As an advocate for your children, you must work to help your children achieve their goals. When your children are young, that means you advocate for their interests at school. As they age, you must teach your children to advocate for themselves. This is important because children who learn to advocate for themselves as children are more successful advocating for themselves when they become adults.
This article is the first of a series of articles exploring the ideas discussed in the book. These articles are designed to help you learn how to successfully advocate for your children. Read the articles and click here to get a copy of the book for yourself.
Some of the topics that will be explored in upcoming articles include:
So, the question for you this sensational day is, how do you advocate for your children to succeed?