Category: Creating Confidence

picture of book Creating Confidence Begins and Ends in Your Mind

Creating confidence begins and ends in your mind. This is great news because it means that everyone can create or boost their confidence whenever they need it. One of the best things about confidence is that it can be a team sport.

This means you don’t have to create confidence all by yourself. You can use these articles to help you create the confidence you need to succeed!

Confidence is not some mysterious thing that only successful people can have. Confidence is something every person can have if she so chooses. One of the first things you must do if you want to have an attitude of confidence is to look at each day as a new opportunity to shine.

One of the most important things to keep in mind when it comes to confidence is that it is not a question of whether or not you can be confident. You can be confident if you choose it. The question when it comes to confidence is are you going to decide to be confident and then work to keep your confidence fresh and new each day.

It is important to remember that often confidence does not start and remain strong and steady over the course of a lifetime. Indeed, confidence sometimes comes and goes. Confidence is something that you can renew moment by moment and day by day. Giving the adjectives to each day’s name helps you to focus on characteristics and qualities and this focus will help you to renew your confidence, remain focused and succeed all you attempt.

When it comes to being confident, never give yourself an “or” option. Tell yourself that you are going to be confident, period. This is very important. Think about children, when you tell a child, “Clean your room or no dessert.” Sometimes the room will get clean and sometimes it will not. You gave the child an option and she picked the one that was most pleasing to her. The lack of dessert was more pleasing than doing the work to clean the room.

When talking with yourself about being confident, never give yourself an or option. Never say to yourself, “I will be confident or I will not be able to get things done.” Do not use this or option because it allows you to think, in a subtle and subliminal way that the thing that comes after the or is a possible, acceptable, or desirable outcome. It is not.

If you want to read more about ways to create the confidence you need to succeed, check out the articles in the section. They will encourage, inspire, and motivate you to go from where you are now, to having the confidence you need to succeed.